نارون1
28th May 2011, 12:18 PM
Positive Psychology Exercises for Life Happiness
Five easy positive psychology exercises can help you improve your relationship and be happier. Each of these exercises, resulting from psychology studies, offer the benefits of greater happiness, contentment, and life satisfaction.
Autonomy—Express your individuality
The more autonomy and freedom of choice in your life, the happier you are. Look for opportunities in your daily life, at work and home, to express your free choice and independence.
Organize your space.
Devote some time to activities you enjoy
Bad Feelings Fade
Positive psychology researcher Dan Gilbert finds that people systematically over-estimate the duration of their feelings about both positive and negative future events. People adapt to new situations very quickly. Therefore, the negative event you fear, if it occurs, won't trouble you for as long as you now think it will
Fun and Philanthropy
Psychology studies show that an orientation to the welfare of others is, in the long run, more satisfying than an orientation to one's own pleasure. To experience this for yourself:
In the next week, undertake one pleasurable activity for yourself and one philanthropic activity that will benefit another person.
Spend about the same amount of time on each activity during the week and at the end of the week jot down your reactions and feelings as a result of each activity.
Gratitude Letter
Gratitude (http://www.njavan.com/forum/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fpersonaldevelopmen t.suite101.com%2Fblog.cfm%2Fgratitude_can_make_you _happier) is a wonderful feeling of thanks that, when expressed, brings positive emotions to both initiator and recipient. To experience this for yourself, pick someone who has been kind and helpful to you, but has not heard your personal expression of thanks.
Write a gratitude letter to the person you pick, expressing your gratitude and why you are grateful in specific and concrete terms.
If at all possible, deliver it personally and ask the person to read the letter in your presence.
Happy Relationships
Research indicates a very strong correlation between the quality of a relationship (http://www.njavan.com/forum/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.suite101.com%2 Fcontent%2F7-steps-to-good-relationships-a8655) and the way in which partners respond to each other's good news. When your partner has good news to share:
listen attentively,
share positive thoughts about the news, and
be constructive.
Have A Good Day
Set up a journal or daily record and record your major activities each day for at least two weeks. At the end of each day, evaluate the "goodness" of that day on a scale from 1 to 10, where 10 is one of the best days of your life, 5 is an average day, and 1 is one of the worst days of your life.
At the end of the two week period go back over your records and look for a correlation between days you scored 6 or higher and your activities for that day. Look for activities that are present in some form during each good day.
Now look for ways to include these activities in more of your days and you will have more good da
[golrooz][golrooz][golrooz][golrooz]
Five easy positive psychology exercises can help you improve your relationship and be happier. Each of these exercises, resulting from psychology studies, offer the benefits of greater happiness, contentment, and life satisfaction.
Autonomy—Express your individuality
The more autonomy and freedom of choice in your life, the happier you are. Look for opportunities in your daily life, at work and home, to express your free choice and independence.
Organize your space.
Devote some time to activities you enjoy
Bad Feelings Fade
Positive psychology researcher Dan Gilbert finds that people systematically over-estimate the duration of their feelings about both positive and negative future events. People adapt to new situations very quickly. Therefore, the negative event you fear, if it occurs, won't trouble you for as long as you now think it will
Fun and Philanthropy
Psychology studies show that an orientation to the welfare of others is, in the long run, more satisfying than an orientation to one's own pleasure. To experience this for yourself:
In the next week, undertake one pleasurable activity for yourself and one philanthropic activity that will benefit another person.
Spend about the same amount of time on each activity during the week and at the end of the week jot down your reactions and feelings as a result of each activity.
Gratitude Letter
Gratitude (http://www.njavan.com/forum/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fpersonaldevelopmen t.suite101.com%2Fblog.cfm%2Fgratitude_can_make_you _happier) is a wonderful feeling of thanks that, when expressed, brings positive emotions to both initiator and recipient. To experience this for yourself, pick someone who has been kind and helpful to you, but has not heard your personal expression of thanks.
Write a gratitude letter to the person you pick, expressing your gratitude and why you are grateful in specific and concrete terms.
If at all possible, deliver it personally and ask the person to read the letter in your presence.
Happy Relationships
Research indicates a very strong correlation between the quality of a relationship (http://www.njavan.com/forum/redirector.php?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.suite101.com%2 Fcontent%2F7-steps-to-good-relationships-a8655) and the way in which partners respond to each other's good news. When your partner has good news to share:
listen attentively,
share positive thoughts about the news, and
be constructive.
Have A Good Day
Set up a journal or daily record and record your major activities each day for at least two weeks. At the end of each day, evaluate the "goodness" of that day on a scale from 1 to 10, where 10 is one of the best days of your life, 5 is an average day, and 1 is one of the worst days of your life.
At the end of the two week period go back over your records and look for a correlation between days you scored 6 or higher and your activities for that day. Look for activities that are present in some form during each good day.
Now look for ways to include these activities in more of your days and you will have more good da
[golrooz][golrooz][golrooz][golrooz]